The path of life lies in the heart of the traveller
5 CORE ATTITUDES FOR A GREAT PERSONAL EXPERIENCE
by Ahmed. A. Hassan; Writer, Manager, Entrepreneur and Peace Activist.
The entire Universe is made of diverse individual bodies, each bound to time, like you, and undergoing their own individual experiences along with the Universe.
A huge body of Human Psychology and Human Behaviour knowledge asserts that the human experience is inseparably intertwined with the human attitude, a number of other behavioural elements, and the characteristics of the human environmental space and its components. If this statement and condition is true in reality, then how every human is affected by the environmental space and its components, over his or her life period, is impacted by the characteristics of the environmental space and its components, and the manner in which he or she acts and behaves within the environmental space and toward its components.
Critical observation and experimentation by Human Psychology and Human Behaviour scientists and experts over the years have shown that there exists a tough limit, though, to how much control the human can exert on the environmental space and its components, but a surprisingly, minimal limitation exists to the extent of control which the human can exert on his or her manner of action or behaviour within the environmental space and toward its components. This minimal limitation in existence to the extent of control which the human is permitted to have on his or her manner of action or behaviour within the environmental space and toward the environmental components, and the level of collective knowledge possessed of his or her action and behaviour capabilities, the characteristics of the environment and its components, and the unique experience associated with each combination of unique action or behaviour and unique environmental space and component characteristics affords the human a great opportunity at determining his or her experience, over his or her life period, within the environmental space and around the environmental components through conscious direction and coordination of his or her action or behaviour towards the achievement or avoidance of any particular experience.
As these facts and observations point out, practical human experience in various aspects of life are continuously impacted by these factors- the human attitude, a number of other behavioural elements, and the characteristics of the environmental space and its components.
Business leaders study the unique characteristics of their business environment space and its components and anticipate its outcomes at the run of business operations, period in- and period out, given a certain value of resources and efforts they are intending to commit to their business to create their great business experience. Such it is with life too.
The leaders at Rippln Inc., among who are Brian Underwood and Michael Rutherford, are testing their wonderful new social network, and I am lucky to have been invited to join by another excited beta user and real estate entrepreneur Ralph McGinnis. Do you wonder what is so awesome about their new social network and why I am lucky? The reason is the Rippln leaders chose, with their own known capabilities and knowledge of the characteristics of their business environment and its components, known from previously gathered knowledge, to act or behave in a manner that led them to develop their own social network product, Rippln, and that will soon bring them the great business experience they seek for themselves and their customer base and make them a great competitor in the market. Here is the lucky thing: the Rippln social network will be free to join and will offer its users the privilege to earn from building user network bases, ripples, as it is popularly called on the network; communicate with network members; and create and sell their own products as well. With their act and behaviour, they have created a great experience for themselves and are underway to deliver a life-long chunk of great product experience to the population of individuals that will be embracing their network soon when it launches off beta. If you will like an invite to Rippln too, just send a #DM to me on Twitter to request your own exclusive and unique invite code, using my Twitter handle indicated overhead, and open yourself to that great experience too.
So your attitude can lead you to a great personal experience. Here are five core attitudes that I have employed and recommend to you for a great personal experience. When you learn about them and enjoy them, you may choose to share them with someone you really think needs to become aware of the possibilities and enjoy them as you have.
The Five Core Attitudes-
Attitude #1- See Clearly.
As human experience is intertwined with the characteristics of the environmental space and its components, it becomes a necessity to take the characteristics of the environmental space and its components into consideration when trying to shape one’s experience within it; to see, clearly.
The major problem concerning seeing clearly is not only failing to consider these characteristics, it also is the manner in which they are considered; how clearly they are seen.
Seeing clearly is the ability to perceive what is seen as it actually is in the shared reality of existence where you find yourself.
As the capability of the human to influence his or her experience within or in relation to an environment or a body in the manner that is desired is dependent on the previously held perception of the human about the characteristics of that environment or body, the perception held of the characteristics of any environment or body by the human to influence the direction or coordination of his or her action or behaviour within or in relation to that environment or body must precisely match the actual characteristics of that environment or body to avoid a mismatch of human action or behaviour with the characteristics of an environment or body which may lead to unexpected and undesired outcome.
So, ensure you see clearly whatever comes into your sight, or that you encounter, to help and guide you to making action or behaviour decisions that will yield you that great experience.
Attitude #2- Uphold Self-Value.
Not only the environmental space and its components affect the human experience, the human attitude does have its impact, too, on it.
All the components of the Universe possess their own natural unique characteristics that define their own natural realities and experiences. You should realise yours and embrace it too to help you understand your own unique possibilities which you will find naturally existing in form of capabilities within you; for this defines your own natural, unique reality and experience and is the secret to your own unique great experience. In realisation and acknowledgement of this your unique reality and experience, you will be able to place and view yourself within your environmental space and around the environmental components to help you choose action or behaviour as it is within your own natural reality and experiences.
Upholding self-value is ensuring that you become aware of your own unique existence and embrace, acknowledge, and preserve your own unique capabilities from any suppression, wear, taint or smear, owing to the influence or effect experienced of the environmental space or its components.
Attitude #3- Act.
Apart from the major problem of seeing clearly, a great barrier to you realising that your great experience is to fail to act.
Through action you impress your act or behaviour upon reality which in turn will grant you that your own great experience, and, as highlighted in the previous recommendation of seeing clearly, the significance of the manner and quality of your action to the realisation of your own great experience is very intense. The manner and quality of your own action will determine the manner and quality of the resulting experience.
Therefore you have to act, and act with great quality so as to ensure you get that great experience.
Attitude #4- Listen.
When you engage in action or behaviour within your environmental space or around its components, there always exists a resulting action, behaviour or characteristics associated with that unique action or behaviour you are expressing, which, in characteristics and manner, represents and explains the unique characteristics and manner of the action or behaviour that can result from the environmental space or whichever of its components through your own unique act or behaviour, and the best way you can note and become aware of this is through quality listening.
Quality listening is not only hearing or becoming aware, but it is paying attention to what is heard or discovered and to commit to grasping its meaning. What you listen to at one moment will inform your action or behaviour decision, as well as your experience expectations at some other point in time, so focus on listening with good quality to enhance the quality of your action or behaviour and help you realise that your great experience.
Attitude #5- Respond.
As a chain of experiences unfold after your initial act or behaviour within the environmental space or around its components, you will or may encounter, again, series of resulting actions, behaviours, or characteristics within your environmental space or from its components which you will have to confront to continue to shape your own experience.
You will need to respond in action or behaviour in a manner and quality that will match the manner and quality of the action, behaviour, or characteristics of the environmental space and its components and will result to your desired experience.
Without appropriate response, just as without matching action or behaviour within your environmental space and toward its components, you cannot realise your great experience or impress it upon the reality of your environmental space and its components that exist along with you.
Ensure you respond with a great manner and quality to help you realise that your great experience.